Sunday, August 24, 2014

Cruising for a bruisin' ...or just cruising

The kids really wanted to go on a big trip for spring break this year. With the wedding coming up, Ken and I didn't want to spend a lot of money. (Weddings are expensive!) So we ended up going to California...it was a fun trip, but not quite what the kids had in mind. We told them we would go on a bigger better trip after the wedding. Well, they did not forget this promise. They kept asking and asking where we were going this summer. Tyler was set on going to Costa Rica. But for some reason I didn't want to go there. We talked about going to the Canary Islands or some place that we had a time share. We went back and forth between several places before we decided to go on a cruise to the Caribbean. I found a good deal online and thought it would be fun, adventurous and fairly inexpensive. Well 2 out of 3? It was more than we had expected... but hey it was fun and adventurous!

We flew to Miami (Ken and Tyler together on one airline and Teegan and I flew with frequent flyer points on another) We arrived within a short time of each other. We stayed the night in a hotel and caught a free hotel shuttle to the port.

The first day which was Sunday, we spent at sea. Mostly eating, exploring the cruise ship and eating some more. As on most cruises we did a lot of eating. Monday was or  first port of call  in Cozumel. We took a taxi to a place where we spent most of the day snorkeling.


We also saw a lame seal lion show and saw some dolphins. This was a good taste of snorkeling for the kids. We had a nice chair on the beach with shade to relax and snokel at our leisure.

Tuesday we stopped in Belize and went to the ancient Mayan ruins in Lamanai.




We hired a tour guide ahead of time and he took us to the ruins. We spent about an hour going down the river to Lamanai. We saw 3 ruins and hiked the tallest one, which was really steep. It was a great view. After returning from the ruins we ate an authentic lunch of stewed chicken, rice and beans. It was delicious. The guide talked to us a little about the significance of the Book of Mormon and these ruins. He was not LDS but knew a little of our beliefs.




Day three was Roatan Honduras.
 Zip Lining was way fun!


 Monkey head!



I think this was our favorite stop. It was really beautiful. We Went zip lining through the Jungle, got to hold monkeys, toucans, and other animals, and had a beautiful spot on the beach to snorkel. This location also had a boat that had been placed in the ocean with a big rope swing to jump from. we had a great time. Our guide told us about how they love to eat iguanas. He told us about how you need 4 people to catch one. A seer to spot it, A climber to climb the tree to see where it goes,  a runner to run after it, a catcher to catch it and a dog. He also told us about how he ate his friends pet iguana. I didn't believe him about all this stuff but he swears it is true. It isn't legal to sell them so you can't find them in stores or restaurants.

Our last stop was Costa Maya Mexico. It was our least favorite and we didn't spend much time there.




every night was a new towel animal waiting to greet us on return from our dinner.



After our cruise was over, we spent a couple days in Miami. It was so humid and hot that it was somewhat miserable. We got tickets for the hop on hop off bus and drove around Miami some. We also went to church. and on the last day Ken and the kids went kayaking. They saw a manatee and a little shark. We also ate stone crab for the first time. It was soooo delicious but really expensive. It cost $60 for 5 stone crab claws!
The best crab I have ever Joes stone crab!
 every night was a new towel animal waiting to greet us on return from our dinner. 

 The kids wanted pizza so we got them some so they wouldnt be hungry for our expensive Joes Stone Crab meal. Its a good thing too.



South beach 


It was a great trip, my favorite part was spending time with my family and creating memories with them.

The I dos are done...in a manner of speaking

It has been over two months now since Tori and Jennings got married. I still can't believe it sometimes. It was a perfect day. I can hardly believe that we pulled it off! We are pleased with how well everything came together. I hope that my little girl will be blissfully happy from now until forever! If not, Jennings, I will hunt you down. haha.

Photo
Here is a link to the video

http://vimeo.com/103905611

I love those 2 and I am happy for them. I am a little sad for myself however. The night before the wedding, I cried and cried. I was happy but sad at the same time. Sad that my little girl was leaving home to make a home of her own. Sad that I wouldn't get to see her everyday. Sad that she had a new best friend. It is hard for a mother to let go of her babies! So hard! You give them life and everything you have, then before you know it, they are gone. When they are little it seems like you will have them forever. And then before you know it and usually before you are ready, it all becomes a memory. I am so pleased that they were worthy to enter the temple and be married for time and all eternity. I was emotional in the temple, my baby girl has grown up and has become a beautiful righteous woman.

The reception was perfect. We had a lot of support. The decorations came together perfectly. We got lots of compliments on how amazing the decorations were. The food was great, We had dancing and a DJ that was so fun! It really was a great day! We had lots of help cleaning up so we were home and in bed by about midnight. That was such a blessing!

These two are such a blessing in my life! I can't wait until I can blog about babies! Although I do not feel old enough to be a grandma! Maybe I can wait. Ha

More These are a few of my favorite things and some that are not so much

As I was getting ready for church today, I reached for my tooth brush and started to brush my teeth. I immediately realized that there was a hair on my toothbrush! Bleck! I hate that!. I hate hair anywhere that isnt on a head. Hair on my neck ( I am really sensitive and can tell if a hair has jumped off my head and landed on my neck) hair on the bathroom counter, and especially hair on my toothbrush. ugh! So I decided to make a list of things I hate. So here goes:

Things that I hate:
Hair on my toothbrush
Whining
Going to the doctor (dentist, gynecologist, optometrist etc)
A kink in my neck
I hate being crammed into an airplane for hours especially when I'm tired and just want to lay down and sleep. I hate the stale air that is on airplanes. I don't much like airplane food either unless its ice cream.
Throwing up..nasty! This is so disgusting. For some reason my family talks about this more than is ideal and its usually at the dinner table. :(



Then I started thinking about
things that I love: 
My family
Doing things with my family (playing games, eating, travelling, camping etc)
Cotton Candy I don't know why but I love me so some good cotton candy!
Sugar -I love sweets! Is this bad that my top five things have sugar listed twice? I love a good treat, cold stone ice cream, a good cupcake, sugar cookies, chocolate chip cookies, brownies, maple bars...I could go on and on but you get the idea.
A good movie that makes you laugh and cry (Steel Magnolias)
Eating dinner out (I love having a break from cooking-it is especially great if the food is good...this is not always the case. I have high standards of what good food is)
A good bargain
Travel, travel, travel. I love to travel. well not the act of travelling, that kind of stinks (see above list of hates) But I love visiting new places, and experiencing new cultures, foods and people.
I love to laugh although it can be hard to make me laugh. I don't find most comedy funny. But I love to laugh
I don't do it nearly often enough.
The feeling I get when I am done exercising-relief
A good hug-not too long not too short. Some people I like to hug longer than others.





Monday, February 10, 2014

My adventures with Teegan

Today was an early out day at school. So Teegan and I decided to spend the afternoon together. She makes me laugh so hard. That girl is funny! She makes me laugh so hard I cry and get a good ab workout. I can't even tell you what exactly is so funny, and even if I did, it probably wouldn't be funny to you. Its usually a "you had to be there" kind of moment.

We went to Cafe Rio and got a pork salad for the two of us to share. (Teegan has a love affair with Cafe Rio salads.)  We were going to go on a picnic, but then it started to cloud up and sprinkle, so we had a car picnic in Costco's parking lot. It was a very bonding moment. We even took selfies that we decided were too ugly to post on Facebook. Teegan couldn't stuff the food into her mouth fast enough and made multiple mmmmmmmmmmm (translation:this is soooo delicious) sounds. She also spilled water and food on herself multiple times. What a slob! haha! As we exited the car she asked me if she had anything in her teeth. I cannot even begin to describe the buffet of food that was stuck in her braces. I was laughing so hard that I couldn't even answer her.

Afterwards we went into Costco to get a few essential items ie gummy vitamins (no home should be without them).  Teegan ran the cart over her foot and was surprised that it hurt. duh! She was in a hurry to return to the car. Also saying I can't wait to meet shelly. I was like "whatever" I had no clue what she was talking about, but then I figured out that it was the remaining salad shell that was in the car. Get it? the tortilla shell? She is so weird. She savored that remaining shell dipped in the special ranch dressing as I drove toward home. She was guarding that sauce so carefully around each corner and over every bump. Trying not to lose a single drop. I laughed, stuck my finger in it and wiped it on her face. She kept it there for practically the whole ride home while she texted and called on her cell phone. When she finally wiped it off and licked it from her finger, she discovered that her skin was softer. She discovered a new face cream! lol.

She begged me to let her drive home from the church. So I gave up the drivers seat and held on for dear life. We arrived safely, as you can tell, or I would't be writing this blog. I think that I should write a book titled "My adventures with Teegan" It may be a best seller. But for now this blog will have to suffice.

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Chicken noodle soup

I love this essay that Tori wrote for one of her college classes. It goes to show that you never what little moments in life will touch your children and create lifelong memories. I love the feelings and emotion she expressed. Reading it took me back to that time as well and I can remember it vividly, although my experience was a little different than hers. Nevertheless, it is sweet to read and understand her feelings. Very nice essay capturing a childhood memory. Love it!

Tori Trent
ENGL 2010-13
Dr. Julie Simon
24 Jan. 2014
Chicken (uncooked)
Peas or corn (optional)
While the water is boiling the uncooked chicken make the noodles.
Basic Noodles for 2 people:
1 egg
2 Tablespoons milk
¼ teaspoon salt
1 Cup flour
Whisk first 3 ingredients then stir in flour. Roll on floured surface until 1/4th of an inch. Cut with a knife or pizza cutter into strips. Take out chicken and drop noodle strips one by one into the rapidly boiling water. Add flour to thicken or can of cream of chicken soup. Cut up chicken and add to soup when noodles are done (about 15 minutes). Before serving you can add frozen peas or canned corn (drained). Add salt or garlic salt to taste.
My Grandma's Chicken Noodle Soup
I see tall trees lining the Tennessee forests outside, peaking through the window of my grandmother's kitchen. My grandmother instructs her grandchildren, telling them to mix flour, eggs, salt, and milk into a medium sized bowl. I drum my hands into the sticky mixing mess. My sister and cousins all take turns mixing the items into a doughy ball. Once the dough is mixed, my grandmother tells us to cover the table top with flour and hands us a wooden rolling pin. I watch as the ball of dough takes a flat and thin shape across the table. We scrape the remains of the dough from our hands when the dough is flattened. My grandmother demonstrates how to cut the dough into thin strips, explaining that the strips will become noodles. I mimic my grandmother's demonstration as I concentrate on cutting the dough into precise, proportional noodle-like shapes. As we continue to take turns cutting the dough, my grandmother drops pieces of chicken into a large pot of hot water. She informs us that she is making the broth.
When the dough is fully cut, Grandma instructs us to carefully take each strip of dough and place them into the pot of boiling water. We each eagerly take several strips of dough and dump them into the boiling chicken mixture. “Careful, we don't want the noodles to stick together”, Grandma warns. Correcting our previous behavior, we carefully avoid clumping as we place the dough strips into the pot, one after the other.
Peering down into the boiling cauldron, the strips of dough become puffy and expand as they cook. They begin to take the form of noodles as they are violently turned from the current of the bubbling potion. I start to smell the savory steam, escaping from the brew.
Now all we have to do is wait. Family from all over the country is here, casual conversation takes place and smiles fill the room. People share their latest news about their lives as the aroma of the soup increases in the room and continues until it fills the entire house. My excitement increases and my patience is tested the longer time passes. Finally Grandma grabs a fork and catches a floating noodle in the pot. She tastes the noodle and announces that the soup is finished. Finally! Our hard work and our efforts will be paid with the delicious taste and texture of Grandma's chicken noodle soup.
Family trickle into the kitchen as the conversations quiet. People gather around the large pot with bowls ready. Grandma asks my father to bless the food and everyone instinctively folds their arms, closes their eyes, and bows their heads. My father's voice rises above the silence as he thanks his father in heaven for family, the time we have to share, and the food. As a chorus of amen follow his own, people excitedly pick up their spoons and start to devour. I sink my teeth into a combination of broth and noodle while concentrating on the soft, chewy, uneven texture.
I take several more bites before I raise my head to take in the view. I see my family surrounding the my grandmother's table to share this delicious meal. Emotion rushes over me, feeling grateful for the rare opportunity to see my extended family sharing this moment. This soup may be simple, but it has complex feeling hidden in it's savory taste. The Trent family is made up of many, many people. I have aunts, uncles and cousins that grew up in Tennessee but since then they have spread through the states, making it rare and difficult to see them together. Seeing, smelling, and tasting this soup reminds me of my heritage, past memories of family gatherings, and most of all, my grandma.
It is a rarity when I get to see my grandmother in her own kitchen. I take joy in the remembrance of past visits to grandmother's home and having the uncommon opportunity to taste her meaningful chicken noodle soup. The sight of family gathered around the table talking and laughing and consuming the soup floods my being, bringing a satisfied smile to my face.


Saturday, January 4, 2014

Hello New Year- What will you bring?

A new year has dawned. 2014! When I was younger the year 2000 sounded so far off and so futuristic, now we are in the 14th year of the 2000's. It is a little hard for me to comprehend. Where has time gone? Every time a new year approaches I wonder what it will bring with it. Trials, joys, accomplishments, changes. I find myself reflecting on things of the past year and how to make myself better in this new year.

Today is the 4th day of this new year. I have made resolutions to improve myself spiritually and physically. So far so good. lol. But today I also find myself looking to the future and back to the past at the same time. I'm not sure why, but I find myself filled with emotion. I'm so grateful for my family. My family brings me so much joy and fulfillment. Especially my children. One can never know the deep love a mother feels for her child until she is a mother herself. One day you are single and only have yourself to worry about, and then you find someone to love and who loves you back. Sometimes this happens when you least expect it. And when it does it is so wonderful. You commit to each other and make sacred vows that reach into the eternities. You begin on a journey together that is miraculous, scary, exciting, hopeful and full of love. It is a time in one's life like no other. I reflect back on this time in my life. It seems so long ago and like yesterday.


I remember being a new mom. It was a struggle but one filled with so much love and joy. It was the most precious time of my life. I remember holding my baby girl in my arms and thinking that I would have her there in my arms forever. That she would always belong to me. She was the most beautiful and perfect thing that I had ever seen.  My baby girl is now almost 20 years old. I know that it won't be long and I will have to give her away. Give her to someone else who loves her just as much or maybe more. (I don't know if that is possible) I did not know that this time would come so soon. I am not ready. But no one asked me if I was ready. I really no longer have a choice.  I knew this day would come, but I did not know that it would be so hard.  She will always be my feisty, spunky, silly, fun-loving, precious little girl. My beautiful little red head.

I have tried my best to prepare her for you. Her prince charming. I wrote a blog post on here that mentioned you. It was March of 2012. almost 2 years ago. Back then you were just a cute little frog. Now you are her prince charming. I know that you were made for her. I feel that you are the right one for her. Knowing this makes it easier to give her to you. I have said from the very beginning that I could not have hand picked a better person for her. I knew from the first time that I met you that you are a very special person.

I cry just thinking about letting go. But I also know how much joy the two of you will share. I know that you will love her and take care of her from now until forever. My baby girl will soon be yours. It has been so sweet watching the two of you fall in love.

It is really hard to put into words the feelings in my heart right now. The two of you are still only dating and have just begun this journey together. But I know in my heart that you are the one I will be giving her to in a very short time. I want to thank you for being the man that you are. The man of her dreams. Her Superman. Thank you for being a worthy priesthood holder, for being close to the Lord, for keeping your covenants. I know that you will be her anchor. She will no longer turn to me when when she has a problem, heartache, a silly joke or a question. She will turn to you. She will no longer cuddle with me, she will cuddle with you.

I have only known you for a little over a month, but I feel a special bond with you that I hope will grow stronger and stronger. I know that you are a chosen son of God with great potential and purpose. I know that you have a sincere desire to do good and be good. I know that you will always stand for truth and right. You will be a pillar of goodness. I know that you are the one prepared to give yourself to my baby girl. To love her and honor her. To lead her into the eternities. I know that you will take care of her. Help her be the most that she can be. I know that you will treat her like the precious daughter of God that she is. She has been, and will always be, one of the most special people in my life. Now she will be one of, if not the most, special person in your life.

As hard as it is for me to let go of her, and to give her away, I am glad that it is to you. I don't know if I could give her to anyone less special. I know that you are prepared to love her in good times and in bad. Love her when she is cute and silly, when she is sweet and cuddly, when she is funny and witty. But especially love her when she is tired and grumpy, when she is insecure and scared, when she is exasperating and frustrating, when she is sad and vulnerable.  But always remember that I loved her first :)

I also love that you have dimples. I can't believe that it took me so long to figure that out. But when I did, you inched your way further into my heart. haha! I'm a sucker for a person with dimples.